Recently ada terbaca kat newspaper tentang isteri pukul suami. Fenomena baru lah kiranya kan. Jarang lah sgt kt dgr. Ke I je tak penah dgr?
By the way, tak nak cerita pasal fenomena skang. Nak cakap psl hal lelaki or tepatnya suami pukul isteri.
I been heard this recently. Around a few friends yang having this problem. Yang sorang dah duduk separate from husband and status marriage..I dont want to ask.
Another story I just heard is kena pukul jgk smp lebam2.
Persamaan dalam 2 kes ni adalah lelaki sangat ego sebab tak berkenan isteri berleter or tegur perangai buruk dia.
Alahai sang suami...
Tak kesian ke korang kat bini korang. Apa lah sgt kudrat perempuan kalau nak fight back kan?
I tak dapat ulas dalam perspective islam cause I need to support with dalil or nasihat or ayat quran kan. Which is I dont expert on it.
Whatever it is, this is my grandpa advice to my father when he getting married to my mom.
"Kalau tak suka kat bini tu, jangan di pukul. Amik cara elok, pulang pun biar cara elok."
U get what I mean? Macammana u all take her as a wife, dalam keadaan cantik molek, terurus. Pulangkan jangan lah lebam2 or kurus bini tu. Tak suka pun jangan buat bangsat kat bini tu.
Mak ayah yr wife tu punya lah jaga and susah nak besarkan diaorg, korang2 sang suami sedap je lepuk anak orang. Ingat bini2 ni punching bag ke?
I dont wish to heard any of this pukul story from my friend. Apatah lagi a good friend of mine. Tapi apa yang I boleh buat, just bagi nasihat and berdoa banyak. Moga semua di lembutkan hati.
Harap2 my husband dont do this to me sbb I sure confirm fight back or maybe I ran away laju2..
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